Ilan CooleyJun 142 minhold on"I have trouble processing information, and doing routine tasks. It is hard to navigate personal situations, and read social cues. If I...
Ilan CooleyMay 252 minzig zag"We need to shatter our snail shell shackles and start to really live again." Life seems linear in a lot of ways, but that’s the macro...
Ilan CooleyAug 17, 20212 minisolation 201 - a new chapter"It is time to step into the reality of what is, and let go of what will not be. Even though abstract and unknown factors and influences...
Ilan CooleyApr 20, 20212 minwe can fly"Something beautiful comes from solitude and darkness. Find your wings and fly. Find your way and go. But please know, everything you...
Ilan CooleyMar 22, 20214 minsee me"We need to let people know we still see them. We see them, even if we cannot wrap our arms around them. As I sit here alone, feeling...
Ilan CooleyMar 8, 20213 min1918"A lot of women came before me to forge the path I now walk freely. I am thankful for the women who set precedents, and anyone who...
Ilan CooleyFeb 9, 20213 mingrief vs depression" I felt I had to write this entire thing to justify that my grief was real and difficult. I felt I had to defend my struggles. I felt I...
Ilan CooleyNov 25, 20203 min10,000 hours"In his book Outliers, Malcom Gladwell asserts it takes 10,000 hours of dedicated practice to become expert at something. Theoretically,...
Ilan CooleyAug 25, 20204 minthe happiness project I set out to make myself happier. It took time and effort to tunnel my way out of sadness, but I did it.
Ilan CooleyJun 30, 20204 minthe cannonballMost things are a matter of perspective and if you want to change your perspective you often need to change your vantage point.