fitting in
Life is an ongoing sequence of attempts to make things fit. We try to fit in with multiple kinds of people, places and things, hoping for...
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Ilan Cooley
- Oct 20
- 2 min
jigsaw
Life can be…well…puzzling. It’s like a giant, complicated jigsaw puzzle. Just when we think we have it figured out, we realize we don’t....
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Ilan Cooley
- Oct 3
- 2 min
love yourself first
We are told to put on our own oxygen mask before helping others in case of an emergency. It is a logical step, but is hard to remember in...
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Ilan Cooley
- Sep 19
- 2 min
outside the lines
When we are little we colour outside the lines. Life is abstract, so we splash colour everywhere, never considering what the rules are....
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Ilan Cooley
- Aug 29
- 1 min
to-get-her
Just think of the distance, from here, to there. It’s simply a space, filled with matter, and air. It may not be much, or seem much, if...
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Ilan Cooley
- Aug 15
- 2 min
eclipse
When I was a kid, my dad put a giant welding helmet on me so I could safely watch a total eclipse of the sun. It sat heavily on my tiny...
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Ilan Cooley
- Jul 12
- 2 min
one year
Give yourself a year and you can change your life. Not much looks like it did a year ago. It has been a full year since I made a bold...
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Ilan Cooley
- Jun 27
- 2 min
roy-g-biv
I forget a lot of things lately, like walking into a room and not remembering why. I used to use the mnemonic device ROY-G-BIV to help...
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Ilan Cooley
- Jun 14
- 2 min
hold on
"I have trouble processing information, and doing routine tasks. It is hard to navigate personal situations, and read social cues. If I...
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Ilan Cooley
- May 30
- 1 min
unapologetically me
The wind whispers, “come with me.” I dash off to dance like a prairie fire. Creative sparks feed the flames. Imagination runs wild. Free....
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Ilan Cooley
- May 24
- 2 min
zig zag
"We need to shatter our snail shell shackles and start to really live again." Life seems linear in a lot of ways, but that’s the macro...
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Ilan Cooley
- Mar 14
- 2 min
quicksand
I couldn’t have written this last week because I felt like I was in quicksand. Can anyone else relate? There are so many problems facing...
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Ilan Cooley
- Mar 2
- 3 min
heart strings
Are they the ties that bind us to each other? Do they keep us tethered to life, until they release us into the hereafter? I have...
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Ilan Cooley
- Feb 7
- 2 min
tomato soup and grilled cheese sandwiches
I almost died when I was seven. My family jokes about it, the way you can joke when the person lives to tell the tale. It was a real...
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Ilan Cooley
- Jan 17
- 2 min
don't dim to fit in
Due to personal reasons, I will be shining brightly and unapologetically for the foreseeable future. There is enough room for all the...
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Ilan Cooley
- Jan 14
- 1 min
butterfly wings
I’m a wild girl with fast feet in waist high grass that hisses as it bends. The brisk breeze catapults the crafty creature I am chasing,...
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Ilan Cooley
- Jan 14
- 1 min
pass creek
Tears sprung from my eyes and streamed down my cheeks like the water cascading over the rainbow rocks in the pictures I’d just purchased....
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Ilan Cooley
- Jan 11
- 2 min
worthmore
By what measure do you quantify your existence? There is nothing that makes anyone worth more, or less than anyone else. Nothing defines...
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Ilan Cooley
- Jan 3
- 2 min
do one thing
Do one thing every day that scares you…I disagree with this sentiment. I’ve often heard this sort of thing. It is usually attached to...
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Ilan Cooley
- Dec 22, 2021
- 1 min
clear the cache
Earlier this year I had a total tech meltdown. There is no worse feeling than the “memory full” warning message popping up on your...
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